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My ex boyfriend is in jail because he had 4 prior felonies and fell down the drug hole. Got arrested for possession and they locked his ass up. I used to use with him but never was addicted (coke, oxycotton and xanax). I broke up with him because I couldn't take it anymore (the drugs). I love him and miss him and I write him letters. Everyone tells me he's a loser and I should stay far away from him, but I've never loved anyone else this way and I can't wait to be with him when he gets out. I'm young, and in college with goals and will definately get a good job. Will he be able to make it with a good job? Should I keep writing him? I can't end it I feel like he needs me. I'm lost and I don't know what to do and I don't talk to my friends/family about it because they all say mixed things.
There will always be ONE or maybe 2 loves in your life that you will never forget and always want to go back to. The thing is he wont get no where in life im sorry to say that, but I know a few people myself that have just 1 felony they cant get a job, they cant find a place to live, cant leave state...Whats the sence of wasting your time. He will probably end up going back to selling drugs because thats the only job he can get. A felony is a FELONY and its with you for the rest of your life kinda like a scar that you cant remove. I say move on while you have the chance or who knows you might end up in his position because love makes you do CRAZY things.
I know how you feel, I was like that with someone just not in love. I wanted to help him soo much but I messed up by smothering him whe ni was trying to help. so this kind of stuff takes time, so if you think you can help him, then you should go for it. But I wouldnt do the drugs, I may be young but I've seen what they sometimes do so try to help him out of it and you should stay out of the drugs as well. and sometimes family and friends dont really understand cause they only care about you and not the guy. so do what you think is right just keep you head straight. Good luck!
You cant get a good job with a drug record. It f*cks up your entire life. It stays with you forever. I would get clean if I were you, straighten out, and stay that way. Lets hope you don't have a drug record too.
well, he doesnt sound like a good catch I think the letters should stop and it will be painful and I highly doubt he can have a stable future
you can find someone else to love im sorry =[
I'm clean I dabble every now and then, and I don't have a record or an addictive personality. I forgot to mention that.
