Tips on how to stop hurting myself

Hey my name is Marci and I’m 13,and I cut myself because of the pain that my ex does to me. And I don’t know what to do. I know people tell me to get away from him but I just keep thinking of what he says he to me and hurts me very badly. And I don’t know what to do,because of him I feel like I’m ugly and not good for anyone that I should just die, because I don’t think that there is a really nice guy for me out there. So plzzz help me with this.

Answer #1

well rid yourself of all the negative he brings to your life!!! obviously he does nothing but cause you pain so why are you putting yourself thru it? tell him to stop calling you becos you dont want him in your life anymore! you are better than this, get rid of him asap!

Answer #2

Oh my goodness sweetheat…Dont cut urself..that’s not away out…Just hearing you do that makes me want to cry.. Ur are beautiful! Doesnt listen to that creep. I was in ur shoes at one time! Life is hard and yah know what?! I find the right one who wasnt an ass to me and who treated me right. Your 13 u have plenty of time to fall in and out of love. Dont let this jackass wear u down! Ur beatuiful no matter what and dont lower ur self to him! Please write to me! I would love to keep in touch with u

Answer #3

Hay there. This is what i have to say; Im going to admit, there is no easy way through this… Ive been there. But what ive found is best, is spending as much time with your friends as possble or maybe take up a sport or realy time consuming hoby… Its alwase good to take a break and relax… Judging by your pic, I can tell you im not ugly, and I know ugly! (from southwest england!) And sure your good enough for other people… Hell! The fact your brave enough to come up here and talk about your problems shows your better then a damn site more people who just hide away from it and grow bitter from it… Your friends will support you, and if they dont, you will alwase find a way to servive… When you show spirit, you alwase find a way. Good luck with the next guy you snare!

Answer #4

I say that you get rid of him as fast as u can! i agree with paigeipoo, you don’t need to lower your self down to his level. and you seriously shouldn’t cut your self. i’m 13 also, and i’ve realized that guys that treat you like that, don’t deserve and girl. well, hope i helped! write me if u need some more help

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Answer #5

im 20 years old and I use to cut for the same reason.. and many more. I didn’t think I was so pretty and I thought I was worthless.. but you know what. in the end when you think about it, that guy really isn’t worth it! I was raped at 16 and had a miscarriage, I wanted to cut but 2 months later I found the love of my life. so I think you should listen to some kind of music that makes you feel better, write everything down and burn it ( great feeling) or something like that! it’ll get better I promise

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