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I have been seeing this man for 2 years and I am tired of waiting. He has a girlfriend and he recently told his friends about me. He says he cant just kick her out because he will lose his house. He states he is trying to refinance his home, and that I should not give up on him. We love each other, believe me I never have fallen in love before. I have two boys and not married but I myself am living with the father of my children. It is so complicated. The man I love does not have children and he is 13 years older. He claims he is saying the truth. He tried not seeing me before but we always end up together. His friend told me once that he acts like a stranger with his girlfriend. Please help. I dont know. My grandma claims to see us not be together in her tarot readings. Shes crazy.

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Answer #1

Yes, just roomies. I do want to leave but I guess im scared that the person I love might not do anything. He tells me to quit being doubtful but it is hard. I do see myself leaving soon because it is not fair to the father of my kids.

Answer #2

I would look for a house together and get every thing ready so nither of you are worried about being on the curb.

Answer #3

2 years? I don’t even know why you are asking this question since you still live with the father of your children… what do you want him to do?
Are you and your kids father a couple or just roomies? This whole situation is weird and you cannot ask your man to do something you havn’t done. Maybe you should move out of your babydaddy’s house and into your on place or kick him out however the situation is then confrount your man about not breaking up with his girlfriend. Neither one of your are showing any effort in getting together with one another.

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