the great depression

Saturday I found out that iam officially pregnant and the babys father wants me to get an abortion but im not because I dont have it in me to kill an innocent being…anyway I really love him and I call him everyday at the same time but I feel like he’s growing apart from me and I dont know what to do!!! im in tears right now as I type I want to be with him so bad but he doesnt want the baby should I just cut him loose and tell him he doesnt need to be in the babys life??? he tried to tell me that its a law now that its the fathers decision that the girl get the abortion or not…I dont know if he thinks im some type of moron or something but I know thats not legit…should I put him on child support or just erase him out of my and unborn childs life move to a different state and never speak a word of him to “it” im so confused and depressed

Answer #1

hes prob like evry other young father,,not bothered with the baby at all.. he shouldnt have asked you to abort the baby because its wrong.. if you want the baby den have it..hes just trying to be the tough lad in front of his friends.. you will do grand with or without him.. I know its hard to love him and he not love you but think about al the love the baby will need..

Answer #2

it is not up to him he’s not the one giving birth.. do what you think is best in your situation.. but it doesnt hurt to keep the baby.. :) because abortions are just awful.. in my opinion

Answer #3

girl… its ttly up 2 u.. if you want the baby keep it… if he really loves you he will understand

Answer #4

First of all, it is not his decision whether or not to abort - you’re right, it’s completely yours.

Have your baby, and if the father doesn’t want to be involved, make sure you get custody and child support - there’s no reason why he should be able to ignore his responsibility.

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