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Should I stay with him or leave him?

Okay, here it goes. I have a boyfriend we’ve been together for about four months but I’ve known him for about 2 years, he’s 18 and I’m 17 he’s super sweet but only when he wants to be. every little thing I do or says gets him mad. I tell him all the time he needs to trust me but he’s been eff’d over in past relationships. he doesn’t like to work things out over a conversation, and it irritates me. what do I do so he can trust me more? what do I do to keep him happy? -thank you for your advice =)

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Answer #1

It is not your responsibility to make your boyfriend happy! Focus on being happy with yourself, and don’t take on the responsibility of worrying about someone else’s happiness. What if you feel that your boyfriend needs too much from you? If the relationship feels like a burden or a drag instead of a joy, it may be time to think about whether it’s a healthy match for you. Someone who’s not happy or secure may have trouble being a healthy relationship partner.

Answer #2

Sounds like me and my boyfriend, though we have been together for about a year or so. He can’t trust me! So I just don’t talk to guy or hang out with them. He always thinks I’m going to cheat or something. It’s annoying. Don’t leave him though, just lay itoff for a while and things will get better, trust me. Once you guys have been togheter for a while he will know that your there for him and he will trust you. Until then, just try to understand where he is coming from. He doesn’t want to get hurt again and you have to respect that. You wouldn’t want to get hurt either. So yeah, just lay it off and just do what he wants for now. Just always be there and talk to him. Tell him EVERYDAY that your there for him, reasure him you care. :)

hope I helped, xoxo :)

Answer #3

your so right. thank you. because honestly I don’t want him to leave him, but some days I feel that he’s going to leave me. I’m very sensitive, very! so its hard. but thank you it helped a lot. especially because he’s mad me right now for talking to a lot of guys.

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