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my ma and da split up THREE years ago and itl been so nasty..I’ve moved out since and nvr really tlkd to my da as much as I wud tlk to my ma.I am closer to my ma but a ferw months back my da moved out of his ma’s house and into a house down the road from me.sincce then he has been calling up now and again.I have an older sister who is totali against my da.she is on my mas side.my twin sister only asks my da for money and doesnt talk to him besides that.my 8yr old sisters don’t no the difference.so its only me that sits down and had a proper convo wi my da.d ting is, im hearing things from my da about my mom that make me think shes bein sneaky and visa versa..my ma has moved on and has anew boyfriend who I think is great.my da hasnt.and he has told me before he would move home in a heart beat..bu my ma doesnt want him to cuase they were not hapi togedr… so my question is… how do I keep talkin to both my parents without either of them thinking I am takin sides

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They shouldn’t even assume your picking sides, they need to understand that you need time with both your paretns not just one…and if they do think you are just tell them yournot and that your just trying to spend time with both of your parents… but they should understand that you need to see and talk to both of them…not just one so dont worry about it

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