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What do I do when I'm in the middle of my two friends =( ?

Ok, so there’s a blacklight dance at my school in 2 days. Me Allie, and Kailey used to be good friends, then Kailey and Allie got into a fight over something and they are NOT friends anymore… do you see how this puts me in the middle? Allie moved to the school in the next city, but wanted me to sign her over so she could come to the dance. On the other hand, Kailey wanted me to sleepover her house with a bunch of other friends. =( IDK what to do!! I cant go with both, they hate each other =( Why do they freaking have to make me choose D: I cant lie to Allie that I’m just not going because she’d just get a permission slip from some other friend from this school. =( Can some1 help me?

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Answer #1

Who asked you first? If you were invited to Kaileys sleep over first then you should go. Tell Allie you’d love to hang out with her at the dance but you have plans after. Inform them both they will need to get along in order to be friends with you. They don’t have to like each other but they do need to be decent when with you.

Answer #2

Well, Allie asked me first, but i’d much rather go with Kailey =/ The thing is, they REFUSE to stay by each other.

Answer #3
  • if i told Allie that, she’d be all accusing and say “what, plans with KAILEY” (sarctstic tone)
Answer #4

Ok…Get these two in a room with u and get someone to lock the doors….tell them it is affecting u too :)

Answer #5

lol X) that would be funny. but like i said, they wont be near each other. i’ve actually told them both many times that my situation sucks.. but ofcourse the subject doesn’t get steered around me… it’s becomes how much one hates the other =/

Answer #6

Since neither one is willing to play nice you will just have to pick what you would prefer to do and tell the other to get over it. If you go to Kaileys and Allie un-friends you, can you live with that? If the answer is yes, then do it. You cannot live your life being afraid of their pettiness. If Kailey starts to bad mouth Allie while she’s with you, tell her stop. Be firm, let them know you will not put up with this S–t!

Answer #7

Thank you! this helps =)

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