Still Confused and dissatisfied

I am planning to break up with my girlfriend. I believe it is the right thing to do as no longer feel happy but it is only when I’m away from her I am not happy. Im not sure if Iwant it to end but I think it should. Maybe I’m just subconsciously trying to make her feel the pain I feel by being cutt off. I really don’t want to do it but Im hurt and I’ve told her so many times in the past.

Answer #1

Dude, relationships come and go. IT’S PART OF LIFE! Life will go on, and you will thank yourself for doing it now than waiting too long. If your not happy now that will not likely change.

Answer #2

if whes pushing you away then maybe she wants to end it but doesnt want to hurt you. if you’ve tried telling her before then yes I understand why you want out.

but try just one last time. tell her that shes really been hurting you and your not sure why. if she doesnt react then yea, the relationships a dud. but give a her time to process. girls are extremely complex, and we just need more time to figure things out. she may have other things going on in her life that are making her act this way.

hope I helped a litte :]

Answer #3

I disagree. I think relationships take work. && you’s are possiably just going through a rough patch. If you have tried talking to her about her lack of contact and stuff and she is still being awkward. Try phraseing it a different way rather than nagging at her for never calling you, tell her it’d be nice if she did. Having said that if you feel your differences are too great and that you can’t work through these things by all means you should end it.

Answer #4

Agreed with mrkevin – you’re not doing either of you any favors by continuing a relationship that you’re no longer invested in. Breakups sting, there’s no doubt about it, and ending it might feel terrible for a while, but that pain will pale in comparison to what you’ll feel trying to shoehorn a lasting love from a relationship that isn’t working.

End it now so you both can be free to find someone who is a more complete fit.

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