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I broke up with my girlfriend about a week ago. I loved her very much and I think she loved me, she said she did but Sometimes I didn't believe her because of her flirtatious behavior and her not really caring about my feelings. I know she didn't care about my feelings, or me loving her really. I couldn't take it anymore with all the stress and us arguing and her not caring about my feelings anymore so I ended it and I knew I we would both be better off. I was really excited to be single and everything, but I miss having a girlfriend you know? I've been thinking about her and if I screwed up by ending it and so on and so on. I know she can find a boyfriend easily because she is VERY Beautiful, BUT her personality is very UGLY. By the time she finds one I know she's going to try to make me jealous, How do I handle that? Just ignore it or find another girl? Because right now I really don't want a girlfriend after going out with her... I don't know how to handle this!
Btw, do you think she still thinks about me? because it seems like she has gotten over me and everything already...
Sometimes, some people act like they don't care about one another because they feel like they need to rely on themselves and go on with their lives pretending like they're over the person they really aren't. If she tries to make you jealous, it's because she still has some feelings for you and she blames you for ending something she wasn't quite ready to end. You could either start dating again, maybe someone nicer, making her jealous, or you could wait a while, pretending not to notice, or even laugh at her attempts to make you jealous. Eventually, you will get over her, and she will be over you; hang in there until that happens.
Listen hon whatever you do dont stoop to hr level. She is obviously one of many of the girls who dont see a good guy when he is right in front of her face. Belive me one day she will see that. Dont go on the rebound it will just hrt someone else. Keep your head up act as if you could care less show her you will not put up with someone who treats u this way. I promise everyday will get better.
If you feel that she didn't care for you, then you didn't screw up by ending it. And yes she will probably try to make you jealous, and yes, JUST IGNORE HER. It will be easier, but if you want a new girl, by all means, if she has moved on, go for it. Good luck.
