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Should I trust a man who has cheated on me?

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half now. In early January of this year he told me he needed a break to be by himself and he would avoid me and I came to find out he was seeing this other girl and when I found out it ended. He came back to me and tried to push for a threesome. About a month ago in my search for a threesome I found out he tried to get with another girl. She told me how he called her and tried to get with her. I sat him down and had a heart to heart with him and since then he has changed somewhat but he never keeps his phone on around me and he has a security code on his phone so I can’t look through it. My boyfriend is heavy into porn and I feel he will never stop his cheating ways. I don’t know if I am being paranoid or not. When his phone is off I go crazy. He lives about a half hour from me, so he can do whatever he wants without me finding out. It’s so hard to trust him again. I just want to know what should I do to get him back, to have him appreciate what he has. I lovehim so much.

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Answer #1

Hun>why are you so desperate to keep someone in your life that has broken your trust? Are you not worth more than that? My ex did the same thing to me, and i have enough pride that i decided i wont settle for anything less than what i deserve. If you feel that something just isnt right..you need to go with those feelings. If you keep taking him back everytime he cheats ..he is going to keep doing it, because you are enabling him to. You wont ever make him realize what he has/had. That is something HE has to see for himself! I believe that “Once a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater”. If you want to be treated like just a convience, then thats exactly what your gonna get. You need to set your priorities alittle higher..i can see MAYBE giving someone a second chance, but nothing after that. Especially when he keeps proving himself over and over to you the type of guy he really is! Your life will continue to be full of drama. Thats high school stuff!

Answer #2

Dump him!! You are worth more than you are giving yourself credit for.

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