Ok, so topics like this, don't really ever come up between me and my mother, but I have a reason for bringing it up. So, I know my mom doesn't shave hers, but I'm not comfortable, having my own 'down there'. Its just uncomfortable. I haven't done more, than trimmed just the edges, and don't want to shave it bald, but I'm, afraid that if I trim it down a bunch, she will notice. I refused to go to 'Girly appointments' Like your supposed to when you start your cycle, so she cant find out that way, and she hasn't seen my parts since I was seven, but will it show through my swimming suit bottoms? She isn't the kind of person who would let me do that, so I guess the main thing is: How do I trim it without her knowing? I've tested, and can do it in the shower without a big mess, and the pubes go strait down the drain, but if I leave my patch down there, and just make the pubes shorter, will it show through my swimming suit? And my jeans? I need an answer, because we are going to my grandmothers this weekend(Sunday), and I want them shorter. Also, I looked it up, and before you flush them down the toilet, you should put toilet paper on top of it... is this true? And if so, why? Thx!
I don't know what kind of appointments you have to go to when you start your cycle....do you mean when you start it for the first time ever? But anyways, they shouldn't poke through your bathing suit. I hope you don't wear see-through bathing suits lol so if you don't then you def. won't be able to see them. The only time pubes stick through bathing suits is when you completely shave yourself and you have that really pokey stubble that's kinda longer. So you just gotta stay on top of it :) If you trim it down more, she shouldn't be able to notice. It's your body, so your mom shouldn't have a problem with you shaving. If she does notice, just say that you feel more confident wearing bathing suits because you don't have to worry about it showing out the sides. And you also feel more confident wearing underwear in the locker-room around girls because you won't be afraid of them seeing it and making fun of you.
what you do shouldn't concern your mom like that's kinda personal I wouldent talk to my mom or dad about that... its like a preference an what feels comterble for that person what other people say or think dosent matter...and no if your in a bathing suit you wouldent b able to tell anything the only time someone would b able to tell is if it was like super long ewww lol n idk I would do it in the shower just so you can clean it up or make sure its all gone
Most women who wear bathing suits shave any pubic hair that would show. the smaller the swim suit the more you might need to shave. Unless you have a very sheer bottom I can't imagine hair showing through the suit.
I think that as a teen you are still uncomfortable with the changes your body is going through and this is making you self conscious. I doubt your mom will worry that much about how you groom yourself.
You can shave any time you want, no one Is holding you or telling you. Just lock the door and do what ever you like.
No one has control over your personal life.
Just remember to clean up the fallen hair on the ground, and flush them down the toilet.
Depends on what bikini get the bikini's that aren't see threw.
you should shave it if you like how it feels better when you are shaved, just don't let your mom see you naked, she shouldn't be looking at that part of you anyway, I know I didn't ever like it when my mom saw mine but that's a different story
You can't see pubes beneath your clothes. o.o