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ok some im 15 and a really close friend of mine asked to finger me and I said yes cause I've wanted him to for a long time and I've fingered myself before and when I do it makes me really horny when I imagine his fingers up there but I have a few questions... 1. should he start by like feeling me up first? 2. should I sit, stand, lie down? 3. how long should he leave his finger up there?
I don´t know.. hmm... just do what feels right, but I say you lay down on your back, not your side, trust me it'll probably get awkward for you because you'd have to spread your legs in that posistion and that feels, yeah it makes you feel stupid, so on your back and I don´t know, since it's your first time it might be a good thing to do it under a blanket so you can't see and he can't see, especially if you're a little shy about it and then just enjoy it.
this is the same situation as me! my bestfriend asked me to go steady and I agreed since I was really in love with him for ages and weve been going out fer 2 weeks and hes asked for a handjob im not comfortable but then he asked tae finger me and I said maybe and I've never been fingered before! I want to do it standing up against a wall and do you have to shave your vagina? what if I cum is this okay?
A really close friend of yours.. hmm.
You shouldn't even be doing it. Sexual stuff should only happen when you are in a committed relationship, love the person, and trust them. Why would you want to hook up with some random friend, you are only 15 years old, I say wait until you have a boyfriend and enjoy those times with him.
Answer to raccch questions.
No you don't have to shave you vagina. Shaven or not it dosent make any difference. Yes it's ok if you cum! Just if you are against a wall and hes under you when you know your going to cum either lie down somwhere or warn him so he can move.
1st of all don't agree wit mandyloo if you n this friend are comfortable with each other in that way you should do it. and yal can do it as long as you want and u can sit stand or lay down as long as you enjoy it and your comfortable...
if you really want to go thr9ough with it the yes you want to be lieing down and he can keep his fingers moving up there as long aS YOU WANT
Hey um well me and my boyfriend both want to go further ..finger and handjob but im scared I have no idea wht to do ?... some advice ??
but what do you recommend for a first timer cause I dont know what I am going to be comfortable with?
Oh my god those things just happen its not like there is a rule for that. Just go with the flow
Yes, Mandyloo gave you an awesome advice... I totally agree with her
Go with the flow :))
