Punch her or be done?

I think you should first look closer to home and confront your cheating partner. He wouldn’t have cheated if he wasn’t committed in your relationship… He let a weak moment take over him.

And THEN you can yell at the other chick. Just yell, no touchy touchy. It’ll help give you closure to at least confront the girl and tell her off, because she needs a verbal lesson on not chasing after non-single men.

Did she tie him down, and take advantage of him? Hun, your barking up the wrong tree!

I figured that would be the answers Id recieve.
My boyfriend already knows what hes done is wrong. I said I want nothing to do with him physically untill he can prove his worth. He knows hes a asshole and knods his head in agreement everytime I remind him. He told me what he did and that is why I see a possibility in trusting him again. There is so much more to the story but im not about to write it all.
I know the chick didn’t tie him down, I know he had equal actions. BESIDE THE POINT! She knew he lives with me and that we have been dating for almost four years and sat there like clock work being everything I was and more. Telling him whatever he wanted to hear writing him emails (that I read) About how he should be with her and she loves him.. And I talked to her months ago about how I am his girlfriend and She still pursuid it.
That is why I feel the need to revenge something!

I got to agree with mysterywolf. Your boyfriend cheated on YOU, not the girl. Be mad at your boyfriend, he knew better.

I have been in a similiar situation. I am 26 and my ex is 31. I caught him in our house with a 19 year old girl. I beat her down then keyed her car that she left in my driveway. Now I am facing vandalism charges that may cost me $3500. Luckily, she did not file assualt charges on me. If you were to hit this girl and she file charges on you that would be an assualt on a minor and trust me girl it is not even worth it…I do think that you should tell her how it is and how inconsiderate it is for her to chase a guy that has been in a relationship that long.

punch them both. if it was the 17th centry I would of got them beheaded. LOL

Honestly I wudda punched the skank and kicked the dude in the balls…its plain and simple…I mean come on now 3 whole years and he has the audacity tew cheat! Pshhh maybee I’m just a b*tch but I wudda hit em both…but I’m sorta violent in that way when it comes tew cheating specially when the dude says he loves u…