Should an 12 year old be allowed to wear 4 or 5 inch heels?

Should an 12 year old be allowed to wear 4 or 5 inch heals even if she is tall and can walk in them?

Answer #1

heels, no big deal. as long as the shirts aren’t low cut and the skirts aren’t short. nothing else really matters. heels aren’t risque, it just depends the rest of the outfit. besides, after she wears those one time, she’ll hate them. they’re painful!

Answer #2

I think she should there just shoes its not like she’s walking around naked geeze seriously and I don’t 2 why ^^ you had 2 bring paris into this 4 your fyi she’s my idol and if she made mistakes good shell learn 4rm them were all human gosh!

Answer #3

I dont think she should , as shes only 12 and she still needs to grow up and shes still a child and heals shouldnt be a issue at this age it should be a issue at 15 up wards. sorry if it sounded mean.

Answer #4

their is no prob wearin high heels shyt im 14 and been wearin dem 4 bout 2 year and they don’t really catch older dudes eyes there shoes..but make sure they aint stripper shoes tho..then that will send the rong message

Answer #5

No way 12 years old is wayyy too young that is like early middle school and why would she want to wear them all the time anyway? wouldnt she get tired?

Answer #6

No thats how you get older mens eye..trust me

Answer #7

no. definately not. aside from the catching older mens eye thing, at twelve yeard old, a girl is not fully developed, her bones have not finished forming and it can completely screw up her back.

I also have a huge problem with the clothing and stuff currently being designed for young girls. I dont think its ok for them to dress like they are adults for the simple fact that they are not adults. They dont have to rush through their childhood, when its over they will regret not taking the time to just be kids. They wont get another opportunity. Haha, I feel old now even though im only 21!

Answer #8

it depends on what shes wearing them w/.If shes wearing a mini skirt of course not!But w/ jeans or pants it would be ok.as long as she can walk in them.

Answer #9

I think it Depends on your surroundings like if you live in a bad neighbor hood then no of course not, but if you live in a normal neighborhood then yeah. But if you live in a good/great neighborhood it might be disturbing to most of the townsfolk.

Answer #10

its really something thats up to you some people will judge you for it and some people wont but if your comfortable and like wearing them then go for it its your decision

Answer #11

Well im 14 and I am and have been for the past few years alllowed to dress as I please. Its not as if im going to out to clubs or going anywhere dangerous or anything so I dont see why not.

Answer #12

She’s really young, and maybe guys would get the wrong idea…

Answer #13

well sure she should be allowed to wear them! I just hope that she gives you a cut of what she will make workin’ the streets.

actually, high heels have been linked to overworked or injured leg muscles, osteoarthritis of the knee and low back pain. you are the voice of reason and make the rules for your child. I can’t imagine this even being considered. I would also hope that you would explain to your daughter that a woman’s worth should not to be equated with her looks. intelligence and integrity should be her “fashion” and you must help her understand this. we need to raise and support strong, independent women and help to steer them from the “paris hilton” school of thought.

Answer #14

I agree with uberalex. what kind of message is she sending out when she wears something like that?

Answer #15

nooo

Answer #16

I think so. I was allowed 2. wats wrong if she can walk in them and everything?

Answer #17

I personally dont think they should girls now grow up WAY to fast let them be lil girls til there atleast 14-15 and I may be sounding stupid coming form a 22 yr old but I didnt get “privilages” until I was 16 and I am damn glad I didnt just because when I did I knew how to appreciate it and not go STUPID thanks

Answer #18

I do not think so because the girl is more than likely too young to realize what she is provoking out of the surrounding guys, and until shes old enough to date she should not be allowed to wear such clothing, including shoes

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