Do you think people, mostly woman who are very rude, are mainly just really self concious?

Everyone has things they are self concious about, however not every woman who is rude is that way because of insecurities. Some people are just plain mean, they may have been raised in a household were they witnessed people being treated that way and that’s how they grew up and learned to socialize with people. Some women feel superior to others and feel they have the right to act and treat people like they want. Some women act that way for revenge and to get back at a person. Others do it to make themselves feel better or to impress others and look cool. Theres tons of reasons why a person could be rude.

Yeah, I think the girls who are very rude are just self concious inside, and want people to feel just as bad as them.. But I don’t know.. My cousin is like that, too, which is why I asked the question. She’s a b!tch to everyone, her family, friends, just everyone.. She will randomly say something negative about you, or anyone, it gets annoying. When I asked her why she’s like that, she just says that’s the way she is and I need to deal with it.. Lol.

Whatever the deal is, it gets very annoying when girls and guys are rude for absolutely no reason.

I believe that its the opposite, if people are going to be rude, make fun of you, insult you ect. Is probobly because they have that pain of themselfs not being perty enuff or good enuff and such, so they make people, who they believe have what they dont have, feel bad by telling them mean things. But then, there could be the ones who believe “ they are all that” and they might be proud and think they are perfect and such, so they are rude becuase there is this idea that, that makes them look better or gives them a bettet presentation on to who they are and how they are.

Yes. Definitely.

Yes, i think so. I think people with low self esteem will pick on people who they think are better than them, or a threat to them. They will tell someone that they are stupid, because really they feel stupid and want the other person to be dumber than them to make themselves look better. :(

For me yes, being rude shows to me that someone is insecure and unhappy with themselves.

Not always. Some people are rude because they are highly irritable and don’t know how to channel their irritation in a polite manner. Some people are rude because thats how they were brought up, and they honestly don’t realize they are being rude. I know several people like that. Some may be rude because they have been nice for so long and people have walked all over them. They notice that being rude keeps people a safe distance away and others are less likely to take advantage of them. I also know a few people like that. I think there are many reasons why someone is more likely to act in a rude manner. Being self conscious is just one of the many possible reasons.