I started wearing Lolita clothes to school and everyone keeps looking at me I heard someone say its weird. I love crossdressing and started liking Lolita clothes but, why do some people say its weird.
I guess that Lolita clothes are tailored to accommodate the bumps and bulges in a different configuration than your build is likely to provide,
..... unless you wear the pants on your head, and use the bra as a jock-strap.
But that might be considered a little odd - particularly by people who normally find the Lolita-kit to be attractive.
Anyhow, if you want to avoid looking too weird, don't forget to wax the facial "bikini-line" before going out with those coquettish Lotita frillies on your head.
Weird is the opposite of the norm. And Lolita clothes are not the norm. That's why people look at you funny, because you stand out. Wear whatever makes you happy.
People find Lolita clothes odd because it's out of the norm and because of what Lolita actually means.