most of the time he blames us for their problems and takes it out on us. he doesnt hit us but emotionally he has ruined me. i dont know how to keep from killing myself. HELP PLEASE! i dont want to do it but i dont know how i will act when he does this
My parents used to fight all the time before they got there divorce. My dad used to come home drunk and yell at my mother. I remember the day I stood up to him, you see my mother was afraid he would hurt her if she did. I remember it was like 3 in the morning and I just came down stairs and told him to stop being such a horrible father and that what he was doing was hurting me and my sister and brother, Now when I get mad people know that I am being serious because it takes a lot to upset me, from that day on my father knew that he didn't control our family, I still talk with my dad now that he has learned his leason and moved on. What you have to do is be straight up with you parents, show them how you feel, let them know how much this is hurting you. You got to stand up for yourself, be strong even when things seem like they could crash down. Show them that they can't take things out on you, that you are a person and you do not deserve it.
Well for starters, you shouldn't have to be dealing with such things. And I can honestly relAte to your concern, My parents use to fight all the time Nd all I remember doing was crying, it took me a year after their divorce to realize that the best thing I coulda done was to get involved, sure I probably wasn't mAture enough but talking to them truly saves later regrets and emotional confusion and pain. And personally I never liked being treAted like I wasn't there, sp for your Answer I say, go confront them explain to them that they don't have to be fighting all the time, becAuse it not only destroys their relationship but in the long run it also destroys your family. They as parents should have the common sense to know that if their not clicking they should hove eAch other their space. But, never blAme yourself for whatever hAppens. Wel best of wishes :)! and let ms know how your doing and if things get better
I have the same problem, its not something you should have to deal with.. if i were u i would go up to one of your parents, (preferably when there calm) and tell them how you feel (in a nice way :P ) it might be hard, but if it helps then good, if not, then theres nothing u can do :(
You can either scream for them or get your mp3/iPod and turn the music up loud. That's what I always do when my parents fight.
I meant scream for them to shut up, my mistake.
lol. thankss. i could tryy.:)
No problem.
