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ok so hi im sarah I have asked some questions before but this one is the most importhan
so here is the thing my parents are going through some realy rough patches like there always fighting and arguing about food expences and money and work and are going off at me and my bro for nothing sooo does that mean they might get a divorce???
Just because they're going through a rough patch doesn't mean that they will get a divorce. I'm sure they'll try to work it out. They're only arguing because they're stressed out financially. From what you say, it doesn't seem like they have a problem with each other. So I don't think you should worry too much about it, though I won't rule it out entirely.
They might be less stressed out if you and your brother would help out in the house a bit more. If you volunteer to do more house chores for them, they would have more time to concentrate on work and bring money in to pay the bills and everything. That way, they can't really go off on you anyway because you are contributing positively to their situation.
Speaking as a parent, there have been times when my wife and I have had some major bad times. When for two cents either one of us would have run out the door screaming and I know our fights and arguments didn't give our kids any joy. But it's because of our love for each other and our love for our children that we stay together and build a stronger marriage. So basically a rough patch doesn't mean a divorce, it just means that they are going through a rough patch...there's little you can do about their arguments but one thing that will always help a parent is letting them know how much you love them and how important they are to you. Oh, and clean up your room young lady.
Great advice, reindert!! I couldn't say it better.
Marriage is a "long term" committment...committment being the "key"...No married gets thru 50 plus years, without "rough patches"...(looking back, I'd say if it was all roses...it was the rough times that let us truly know how much love and respect there was...and allowed us to enjoy and revel in the easy times...)
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we help heaps but both our grades are slipping to help them we dont have time to do home work or anything and the other night my da slept on th couch cause he was mad at mum
hey. my parents are seperated they have been for eight years, and if your parents are in love it takes a lot more then that to get a divorce. ;
dont streess
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help them...I know this sounds empty but try everything you can to help...
not really bt if your nt sure just ask them
