Did I offend him?

I have this friend who I’m slowly getting closer to. We really only started talking because we have a mutual friend, but now we are closer. So the other day all three of us were hanging out and this guy likes to tease me and stuff. I made a comment about him making me feel nervous, but that was the wrong word to choose. It’s more like I feel that he only talks to me because of our mutual friend and I feel an awkwardness when I’m around him. He kind of brushed it off. So then I was taking him home and we were in the car for a good 10 minutes of complete silence. Which is weird because he usually doesn’t shut up. (he was also quiet in the car ride over there, but I didn’t say any thing.) He was quiet and he was shaking his legs. I finally asked him if he was nervous and he brought up the me saying that he made me nervous which I thought was weird because he’s not the type to let something like that bother him. I tried to explain what I meant, but it’s hard. I had tried to bring it up before and he said things like he does like me and that me and him should just hang out some time. I tried talking to our mutual friend and she just keeps saying he likes you trust me. So I’ve been texting him, but he is giving me like 2 or 3 word answers. He started likeing these things on Facebook which are really random for him to start liking. I don’t really see why that would have bothered him. I brought it up,but he doesn’t really want to talk about it. Why would he start acting like this?

Answer #1

well how did u think u offended him..as in explain a little more of wat ur talking about

Answer #2

you may have offended him, yes… but not sure.. depends on facial expressions and so forth

Answer #3

Id say he likes you and he’s not fully understanding what you meant by making you feel awkward. I would just send a long messgae and explain it and tell him you know he didn’t want to talk about it but you just felt like you should let him know what you meant.

Answer #4

Well, you just know him well enough yet, to know what he may or may not react to. It’s obvious that you saying he makes you nervous, DID bother him. It’s a legitamate question to ask why…so ask him.

For the time being tho, don’t chase him…that will make him nervous.

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