Is it normal 4 me to wanna be in my room by myself all the time?

Wen eva my parents come in I feel sooo unfortable till they leave. Nd unless I’m wit a bunchhh of my girly friends I hate hanging wit my friends. Or if I’m wit a bf. I’m always sleeping nd tired. Idk. I like being alone, is tht okay? Do u feel like tht?

Answer #1

I am like this all the time. I enjoy my own company more than anything else. I’d rather be locked in my room than be out. My room is my sanctuary, my own space that is so comfortable. So it can be normal, just don’t really barracade yourself in there. You’ll miss all the wonderful things outside and the friends you will make or miss.

Answer #2

I also like being alone most of the time. Introverts recharge on their own, however if you hate being around people and doing stuff all the time, it could be that you are depressed and need to speak to someone about it. Otherwise it really isn’t that strange.

Answer #3

It’s easier to define abnormal than it is to define normal. Here’s the way I learned it. “The Four Ds” Deviance – Different, extreme, unusual Distress – Unpleasant & upsetting Dysfunction – Causes interference with life Danger – Poses risk of harm We’ll ignore the deviance for now, because that can get tricky. If it isnt upsetting you, it isnt interfering with your life, and it isnt harmful, you’re doing ok. Now if you feel like you want to be around others but can’t for some reason or another (social phobia, agoraphobia, body dysmorphic disorder, etc), then being alone should be causing you distress. If you are showing other symptoms (sleeping, eating, mood, energy), then it could be depression and it should be causing interference with your life. Here’s the thing that probably is raising flags. It is unusual for people to be so completely uncomfortable around others. If you’re happy with it, then it isnt a problem. But it could be problematic later on when you have to find a job and such. Most people have to interact with others while working.

Answer #4

I’m totally always like this. I stay in my room alone almost all the time, feeling the same way as you do whenever my parents come into my room. Basically, my room is the only place where I can keep my own privacy.

Answer #5

I sometimes get like this. It’s fine to want to be alone, just make sure you don’t spend your life in your room! Get out and do things with friends, but occasionally it’s fine to be alone.

Answer #6

if ever feeling depressed talkk

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