my mom yells at me ... does she have a reason?

my mom enjoys making me feel bad wather she wants to admit it or not.. exampple … there is a marking on the wall and it cant be her.. its just me and her that live in the house

she sees the marking and says its me… I say no its not me it was you when you were throwing things around… shes not abusive but shes not someone you want to just …whatevre benice to she makes me seem like im terrible and that im the devil

and that im my dad..which is worse then the devil :( I dont like my daddy… at all he is a …not a ncie person… ..does she have a reason to yell at me ? … (1 more example …I have all b’s .. and one d but in a boring class so its not my fault :)

anyways I have a rpoject due tomoorw that im not going to do .. I had 2 weeks notice but hey im tired… but she starts complaing saying she doesnt care that she wants me to leave and go to hell .. cause I dont want to do a project cause I got 3 hours of sleep last ngiht) …

Answer #1

seems like your mom is trying to blame you for thing’s she shouldn’t and no she shouldn’t yell at you yea she should be mad your not doing your project but not yell at you some how you may want to try getting her or even maybe you some help

Answer #2

It really doesn’t sound like your mother’s fault. Your attitude is pretty horrible.

You justify a bad grade because the “class is boring”.

You have 2-3 weeks to do a project, but don’t do it because LAST night you got ‘3 hours of sleep’.

Yeah…I think a few things aren’t adding up.

Answer #3

Sounds like your mom needs help dealing with some issues she has not gotton over yet. She is taking out her fustation on you and no that is not right. She made mistakes that she regrets but she needs to be your mother and support and love you. Is there anyone you can talk to and try and find her help. Have you ever sat down and talked to her? Talked to her without fighting? sometimes it takes the child to act like the adult for the adult to see how they are behaving. Stay strong and good luck.

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