My mom has lost her marbles

My mom…is tearing me apart!

She is leaving me in the care of my father, the man who abused me!! So she can leave to go to Long Beach, with her new boyfriend…I feel very betrayed right now, but I know I am over reacting, but I can’t help it. Why is my mother doing this to me, what am I supposed to do…There is know one I can talk to…so what can I do? I don’t want to stay in the same house as my dad in the night, thats when I’m most scared…

Answer #1

They are your parents, and I know it’s hard, but if you are being hurt, then get out. Don’t run away, because they can and will get you back.

If you are being abused, even verbally, then call the police. You CAN turn to other people for help, it’s your right to do that. Both of your parents are in the wrong. Tell the police about your situation and they will find you a relative or an alternative situation for you. Trust me, I know. I live in an amazing group home because my parents were turning me into a monster. They help kids pick up the pieces, and teach how to live a better life. You wouldn’t believe some of the options you have.

But you have to do something. You have to tell someone. You’ve been through enough abuse, you don’t need any more.

Answer #2

Simply a Rose to brighten your day,         And maybe lessen the cares in your way;         And also, too, to help you to know,         That in knowing you, many others grow!

  An alternative is to contact your state’s local office of Child Protective Services.

Answer #3

Hi I’m Ric…soo tell me whats going on, and we’ll try to find a way to make things better. If you have msn messenger here is my add…rk_trip@hotmail.com

Answer #4

http://www.kidshelpphone.ca/ I’m sure they’ll listen if you’re ever in any urgent danger. And listen to those previous posts, you have the right of your well being. But it sounds like no one will care for you, free yourself! Be strong, and this site and many like it will be here.

Answer #5

ok well msg me and we can talk I help kids like you with familey probs and so people dont have to no every thing I v been through a lot sooo truat me I can help =] please do msg me

Answer #6

my dad started abusing since I can remember, I kept telling my mom to do something she did nothing to help my situation, finally at nine, she took my father to court. For awhile he did nothing to me, I was free from his slaps, yells, wacks on the head, threats, insults, pain. But a few years ago, we went to Romania to visit my Oma (Grandma), thats when he got mean too me, again. I went to Romania again maybe a year or two ago, he got mean again. So now…I don’t think…I want to be…with him at night…thats when my memories of him start to swarm over me…Im over - reacting since he hasn’t done anything..but I just don’t think Im ready for this

Answer #7

what does your dad do to abuse you? any sort of abuse is very serious…your mum is being completely selfish at them moment, by putting her desires above your needs.

does she know how your dad is with you? if not, maybe telling her would be a start. if she does, then you need to go and stay at another family members place or someting, if anyone says anything you have a right to defend yourself and stand up for your own rights of dignity and fair treatment.

why at night?

if there is abuse involved, there’s no such thing as ‘over reacting’

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