Why has my man not had sexual intercourse with me?

I have been dating this man since September 2003. I moved in with him in November 2003. I love him madly. So here is my question and maybe you can help. We have never had sexual intercouse. Its always been kissing hugging. Oral. And toys. Am I wrong for thinking something is wrong here? I love him but I am not sure what to do? any advice would be helpful.

Thank you

Barbara

Answer #1

till what time he is enjoying in sex with you may be few minits (with rerrected pennis) as for my knowladge he must be having some immuture ejeculation problem..! he must be satisfying befor you get the remaining time he wil be simply sleepign with you ..

Answer #2

well he’s freakin weird. i would be jumping all over you if we got naked and doing oral. y would he not? i would be asking him whats up with that. obviously he doesnt have an erection problem does he? a normal dude would have penetrated anything you let him . sorry to be so blunt

Answer #3

my man and me have lived together for 4 months and have been dating for 2 years…we hug and kiss and mess around, but we havent had sex yet…did you ever think that he is a virgin and is just holding out?

Answer #4

my man and me have lived together for 4 months and have been dating for 2 years…we hug and kiss and mess around, but we havent had sex yet…did you ever think that he is a virgin and is just holding out?

Answer #5

is he gay? if you have been with him and live with him there should be some intimacy going on. Have you questioned it at all? Maybe he respects you a whole lot.

Answer #6

I think maybe he’s a born again christain, you should try and know what’s wrong with him.

Churches don’t allow sex before M

Answer #7

may be he has doubt on u or he may be hiding some thing or he practices masterbetion.

Answer #8

He may be hiding an STD from you or maybe he just doesn't enjoy sexual intercourse…I think you need to sit down and talk to him about it

Answer #9

He isn't a virgin. He is 43 years old . I just don't know what the problem is. Oral is there. toys are there but actual penetration isn't

Answer #10

No he isnt gay at least I dont think so..

I wish I had the answers

I do LOVE him madly.

And I want him more and more each day.

But it never goes further then oral and toys.

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