Do you think a man or a woman can be open and/ or proud of their sexuality without sleeping around or acting provocatively?

I agree too… I think that po.rn stars are well, eww. Its because they basically get money for being sluts all day. And i rather be a poor hobo than be a slut. People should always be open to other people even if they have to tell them something that that person can feel okay inside

You are correct with respects to being open - however, what they do to be proud of themselves is an internal position each and everyone of us choose. Morality is a changing part of our life - wheather we chose - as an exampel - to love the same sex of not - One day we do one day we dont - who are we to decide what is right or wrong - Remember Alexander was a great leader in his time - but also he was gay just like the other million or so growing during their time - what Im trying to say is our morals decide what is right or wrong - but he real question is - are we right as what we decide and who is to tell us we are right or wrong? Love who you are no matter what others think. Remember how can we expect others to love us if we dont love ourself - you’re beautiful be happy

People should be private with their sexuality, whatever it is.

Exactly! I think you can be honest and open without being a wh0re

I think that when a Man or Women who does not “Sleep around or act lust driven” that this displays more sexual and self pride, compared to sleeping around or always trying to initiate the arousal of the opposite sex.

Yes

I’m open and proud of my sexuality and I am in a manogomous relationship and have never in my life been the type to sleep around. Being open figuratively and being open literally are two completely different things O_O

Haha, definitely! I was just wondering what people’s take were on that because I’ve been called a prude because I’ve only been with the one guy for three years.

When I was in my teens, I thought being open and proud meant being sluttier than the other girls. When I turned 20, i met my BF and all that changed. We have been together four years. I am tons more open and proud about who I am now than I was then. I can still be a bit provocative when I want to embarrass my BF, but it is for me and him, not for others.