my grandpa died...

am I a bad person because I dont want to go to his funural and lay out..

Answer #1

It won’t make you a bad person, but it would be a show of respect to attend - He was family - I don’t know you or the circumstances, but there is a chance that later in life, you will wish you had attended.

Answer #2

Dear 072306, It’s okay not to attend funerals. Some people wish to remember their loved ones as they were; alive and smiling. He was your Grandfather but you stated you didn’t love him without explanation so speak with a parent explaining that you would prefer not to go and that this isn’t a sign of disrespect but one of preference. Perhaps the talk with a parent will do you good. Sue…good luck

Answer #3

yeah but i didnt love him he was just my grandpa

Answer #4

No your not.But u need to go.It will make you feel better,and u can say what u never got to say before.

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