My girlfriend thinks she's broken down there...help!!!?

So Im in college and this program came to my school about the female orgasm…They said that most girls prefer to have an orgasm through oral sex… I love eating my girlfriend out…I am deeply in love with her and she thinks that her clit is broken or something. I just found out tonight that she can barely even feel it when I eat her out… I absolutely love eating her out and it breaks my heart that she can’t enjoy it. I’m going to marry her and I want her to have orgasms! She is convinced that something is wrong down there. Like she doesn’t have nerves or something. What am I supposed to do!? It’s such a turn off when she doesn’t believe in herself. She has never masturbated or anything… I think she might help if she new a little more about how to pleasure herself, When I try to talk to her about masturbating she really doesn’t want to… She says she wouldn’t even know what to do!

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Answer #1

and why is she so against masturbating? Its pretty normal I thought… I just don’t think that I should know her vagina better than her

Answer #2

Those nerves can take longer to develop… sometimes into a woman’s mid 20s…

Answer #3

well for one not all girls have orgasms by clit associated stuff. sometimes its just vaginally bud

Answer #4

How do I get her to think shes not broken though! It makes me feel so bad sometimes!

Answer #5

just tell her shes not in a convincing loving way. and if she really feels that strongly tell hr to make an appointment for a docter.

Answer #6

sounds like shes embarassed about it tell her that masterbation is perfcetly normal, healthy and natural almost everyone doesit her fingers and some lubericant (optional) is a good start she could also try an electric toothbrush (on her clit) or a dildo if she wants something like a penis because if shes never really tried then she might not know what feels good for her also about her clit, its probably fine but if she really thinks she has no feeling in it then it would be best for her to see a doctor or a gynacologist

Answer #7

she could also try an electric toothbrush (on her clit)

…ehhh… make sure the bristles are pointed UP not DOWN.

How do I get her to think shes not broken though! It makes me feel so bad sometimes!

Tell her what I told YOU earlier.

Answer #8

She used to be a man.

Answer #9