my friend is being molested by her dad?

they wont take the kid away,they will take the dad away

her mom also has a tumor in her brain!!!

Then they’ll most likely get sent to other family member.

Oh my goodness! Well, if your friend doesn’t want to be put into foster care, would there be another relative she could live with? Her father needs to be locked up for good. He’s nothing but perverted and sick! Either you or your friend need to tell the police before things get worse. Your friend and her sister shouldn’t have to go through this since their mother is in the hospital suffering from a brain tumor and such. It would be better to live with either another relative or maybe hope and pray that the mother will feel better enough to take care of both daughters. Your friend can’t commit suicide! if she does end up in foster care along with her sister, then she needs to talk to someone about her depression and suicide. You know, I’ve been there done that when it came to depression. I had my moments with my father when I was 20 21 having him doing his share of touching, and fondling me inappropriately. All you can do at the moment is support your friend and try your best giving her advice and continue to counsel her and give her advice the best you can. I know it’s no fun being molested by a parent especially the father. Like I mentioned, he needs to be put away off the streets before something happens.

There is no way they’ll take them from there mother, she’s in the hospital obviously doing nothing wrong. They will end up keeping them somewhere till the mother is okay enough to support them, the father needs to be punished for this, they need to tell the police right away. There is no other way around this, something needs to be done.

Wait so why did her sister tell the judge the other sister lied? Did she know they would be sent back to the father? If she did, she must like being molested. Not trying to be mean. If I was put in a foster home, I would want to stay there. If the police and judge did nothing and If I was being molested by my father, I would beat the sh*t out of him or kill him for touching me or my other family members.

Exactly as Steph put it. Tell her to contact the right people, maybe give her some information on “Child Abuse” hotlines.

When I was little my friend confided in me the same exact thing.You need to tell your parents immediately so they will contact the police. If you don’t feel comfortable doing that you must tell someone at your school so they will do it ( they are mandated by law to report abuse) or you yourself can can police or the state DCYF agency. You can call anonymously but make sure you give them your friend’s home address & tell them you don’t want to be questioned beyond that one call. Please don’t ignore this. That pig will not stop.Be extra supportive to your friend & try to keep in contact when & if she does get placed in foster care. Another accusation means a better chance the pedophile will get locked up for a bit or at least get a no contact order from his daughters & they will not have to move permanently, but he will. Good luck.

I was molested when I was younger, and when it happens to you, you always think your in fault. she needs to tell someone before it gets worse. No one should put up with that. They will not take her from her mother for no reason, the dad will be punished. The best thing to do right now is to be there for her, and let her know that things will work out. After I told my mom what was happening things only improved. I hope this helped.

We would like to all believe that your friend will be sent to live with the mother and that the father will get arrested, but that does not mean it will happen. I know in CA it doesn’t always happen like that. I was in pretty much the same situation as your friend is in and I have known many other people in that situation. We got taken from our home and we were put into the foster care system. Our dads did not get any punishments besides having his kids taken away. She needs to chose whether she wants to deal with this or if she needs to get out. Even if she doesn’t want to leave she has to consider whats best for her and her sister.

“they wont take the kid away,they will take the dad away”

yes they will, they take any child under the age of 18 (or 17 depending on where you live) away if they think that the environment is unsafe. if their mother is in the hospital with a tumor, they will send the child to be person your parents have chosen to be the people to send them to incase they die or something. if someone in the family can’t take them in only THEN will the kids go to a foster home.

trust me, I was almost taken away because someone lied.