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How to handle my family fighting as my Grandma dies?

My grandma is dying the doctor said that she doese not have long to live! So she is home now. My gradma had wanted all her grand kids there tonight but, when I went over there everyone is arguing with each other, and I cannot take it. It was to much for me~! Am I wrong for saying that I want to stay away because I cannot take everyone arguing at my grandma house, she is seeing all of this and cannot breath at all, its getting really hard for her! My mom is arguing with my uncle, and on top of it all she was drinking! Then my uncle and I dont get along at all and he keep saying slick things under his breath! All in all no one wants to put aside there anger, and this is not fair to my grandma. Me and my grandma were not close but, I still want to be there before she leaves us to go to heaven! Whut should I do in a situation like this! Do I continue to go over there , or do I stay away becaus its just to much for me? Please help!!!

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Answer #1

I’d call a meeting and tell them to act like responsible adults and present a united front (even if not true) in front of a dying loved one…sorry for this difficult time, you’ll all be in my thoughts and prayers !!

Answer #2

I think that you should still go over there, if your grandma doesnt have long left then you shouldnt wrry about the arguements, as you will be able to leave them once your grandma has passed, but for now spend as much time with her as you can

Answer #3

hey I know what your going through I went through that not to long ago. you need to talk to them in a calm and caring voice. you need to tell them “please dont fight not now at least please do it for grandma she needs us” or something around the lines of that. if they dont want to listen to you just go there for your grandmas saik and just be there for her . aye if you have any quetions message me aight peace

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