Ok I've been thinking about sex lately,...and would like to lose it to a guy freind...we've know each other for years.. im 16.. my body feels so ready..but something tells me no..I cant resist urges,..and the pressure...could I be ready..or giving in to pressure...or is this just a big stage of puberty..thanks
You are making a huge mistake if you do, this is why... Knowing your guy friend for years doesn't give him a reason to be able to have your virginity. Virginity is such a special thing, once you lose it, its gone. You cant get it back! If you lose it to the wrong person, you will regret it for the rest of your life. Just because you have known him for years doesn't mean this is okay, you will still regret it. Wait until someone comes along that you have been in a relationship with for a long time and you actually deeply love. You aren't ready anyways. If any part of you says "no" then you aren't ready. When you are ready, you will know it. You need to find the right person first though. When your ready you wont have any doubts at all. Wait for that moment with the right person and you wont have regrets.
That is normal for you to feel sexually aroused and think of that subject often. the important thing is that you not act on it randomly. Wait until you are Ready mentally and with the right person you love and care about.
look its just your hormones. But in other words you got to wait. It isnt like the end of the world if you don't lose it. Just relax and kick back
ahh.. I almost lost my head...thank for the good advice :) I understand now
