Confuced And With A Broken Heart

well me and this guy were going out for 7months he told me that he loved me and i said it back we got along so well and were so happy together until one day at school he said to me i just want to be friends because i am really busy at the moment and i understood that but i still broke down in tears and he felt really bad for me so anyway even tho we didnt go out any more we still hanged out and we still did egzactly the same stuff as if we were going out. That weekend i asked him to come away with me and he said yes anyway we went away and had fun still doing the same stuff as if we still went out.Then when we got back we started argueing again and he said that its offically over now but i know that he still loved me i was crying my heart out because hes such a sweetheart and means the world to me. That night i went out to have fun so i could forget about him and to just have a fun time ianyway i did have a fun time and then when i got back the next morning i was txtin him and we were all good again just as friends and then he told me that he went out with some work mates and this chik that he works with was really drunk and hooked up with him when he left and he was sober but he carried it on and then the next night she went round to his house and he asked her if she would like to go in the room and she said yes of course and they were going to have sex but he couldnt get a boner then he hopped off her and said that he couldnt do it because he can only do it with me cause im the only one that makes him horney lol (yeah) and anyway he told me that he likes her but no where as much as me and i went around to his place the next night we ended up having sex and he spitted out that he loved me 2 times without knowing he was saying it i still mean allot to him even tho wer dont go out were still in love and i asked him if we would get back together and he said only time can tell. and he works with the other chick now i dont know if they are doing shit at work or not but i dont want him to like her cause he knows that she is using him for sex, me and his mum get smart about her to his face and he gets really angry what does that mean? he still treats me well and tells me that he loves me but i am confuced, what do u think? does he really love me? will we get back together? ive needed help for this for ages PLEASE HELP ME SOMEONE

DONT WORRY ABOUT ANY OF THAT ABOVE NOW HE RANG ME LAST NIGHT AND SAID THAT HE DIDNT WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH ME OR THAT OTHER CHIK. WHATS WRONG WITH HIM? I THOUGHT THAT HE LOVED ME AND HE DOESNT EVEN WANT TO BE FRIENDS AND WEN I RING OR TXT HIM HE TELLS ME TO GO AWAY WHAT IS BUGGING HIM CAUSE IT HAPPENENED SO SUDDENLY???????????????????????

HELP ME PLEASE

Answer #1

He’s a jerk! Not to insult your intelligence but he’s an actor and you have been played. He “Loved” having sex with you but now you’re just too clingy for him. Of course you just want to be with him but he just wants the sex. I mean would you have still given him sex after you guys broke up if he was an ass?? I think NOT, so of course he has to be nice and hang with you. Now he’s just tired of the acting like he gives a rat’s butt toward you and her so i guess he just called it quites. But don’t take what i said to heart, I’m only going by what you wrote and this is what i think. Who knows, it could be something totally different.

Answer #2

Without the comment you added I would’ve asked you why he says he is busy and doesn’t want an affair and then gets this chick. But since he wants both of you out of his life, it sounds like the truth. You don’t have a reason to think he’s lying. He told you about her. He says he loves you, it is probably true. I would guess that he’s having hard time applying for universities or getting better grades and you’re somehow disturbing him. If you want to be around him, be there to help him with this issue that’s keeping him busy. Maybe afterwards you’ll be again back together.

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