me? uptight?

k so heres the dealio haha dealio I love that word… anyways so me and my boyfriend were talking and we were just talking about what I would let him him do next time we meet up. and all im gunna let him do is make out in his bed with my shirt off, bra still on and jeans on/off depending and no touching private areas or anything lol and he said like if you dont want to its ok I wont force u then I said “awww lol but does it make you upset or mad or make you think im uptight or boring?” and he said “oh no not really I spose” and he took ages to answer aswell not really? I spose? omg..then he was like well your a bit overprotected (uptight I guess?) so omg well I guess what im asking is what do you think?

btw we have been going out for nearly a year but its a long distance relationship and we dont see each other often and also I told him straight no sex until im ready which could be some years but like, im just so scared of moving things too fast and also because I had a boyfriend who was very forceful so its changed me as a person and has made me guarded I spose so what do you people make of this btw I dont know what im asking clearly I just want some kind of advice or opinions and am I just over analysing? :S cheers x