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Ok, I’m getting married, but have a problem. My fiance’s sister wants to be my maid of honor, but so does my best friend. I have been better friends with my best friend for longer, and really wanted her, but I don’t have the heart to tell my fiance’s sister that she cant be my maid of honor. So who should I pick? I am so confused!!!

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Answer #1

you get to chose she’s your MAID, he gets his BEST MAN. you just need to tell his sister, she is being unreasonable in thinking she could be it when she is not your best friend.

Answer #2

Just tell your fiance’s sister that while you are flattered she is so supportive of her brother’s relationship with you and you really appreciate it, you and your best friend made a pact in high school to be each other’s maid of honor and that’s who your maid of honor is going to be. Smile at her and hug her and say you hope she’s not mad, but you made that promise a long time ago and you never knew you would like your fiance’s family so much or be so close to his sister. Evil. I know, but it’ll work!!! Good luck, hon.

Answer #3

just tell her gently that you have been longer friends with your best friend and you want her to be your maid of honour , but make her feel important in the wedding rely on her a lot and be nice to her

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