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Here's my problem.
Our Two maid are nasty! They act like they are the boss...
Im a kind person and quiet. They are abusing my patient and kindness... Even my cousin's little daughter is spoiled!
They treat me like a stranger... Like im not the nephew of my uncle... Whenever they clean the floor... im not allowed to step on it even thought its the only way... They even get mad...
When Im going to use the stove... they even got mad because of the consumption of the gas... heck...
Even my little cousin's daughter... She has a terrible manner... she had changed!!!
What Im going to do???
By the way im 21...
Im not the kind of person who has bad manners.
Sorry, I've got to side with the maids on that one. Trust me, if you had to clean the floors and kitchen all day, you wouldn't want poeple walking all over it with dirty shoes or making a mess in the kitchen. I'm not saying you would make a mess but others do and will and so the maids get angry because they have to clean it all over again. Put yourself in their shoes and try to be understanding. They're just doing their job. As for the so called brat, well if she is just a child then she probably is not doing this on purpose. Maybe she needs time to get use to you, maybe she gets jealous because she wants "daddy's" or "mommy's" attention, maybe she doesn't know if you are friend or foe yet. Be patient. Children can be difficult at times but if you when over their hearts they are forever full of love and admiration. Try befriending her to make your relationship easier. Good luck!
Interesting. Perhaps you need to find your own place of residence? It is unusual for a maid to treat a family member badly unless there are no repercussions. Which means your uncle and aunt are not saying anything. Given that your cousin is also behaving that way to you, I'm going with you're probably not welcome in that home. And thus people are not treating you very well.
