My mother doesn't approve, should I date him anyways?

Your mom isnt doing this to spite you. She is looking out for your best interest, and she has EVERY right to be involved when her 14 yr old daughter is dating a 16 yr old boy! There needs to be limits set on the relationship, and your boyfriend should be more understanding because you are 2 years younger than he is. Hes being VERY disrespectful telling you to screw your mom, and date him anyways. Your still a child, and children NEED guidance. She wants you to be sure you are making good choices. She doesnt want you to mistake raging hormones for love, because they are two entirely different things. Hes more experienced than you are, and thats usually the reason older boys choose younger girls. 16 yr old boys tend to have one thing on their minds. Dont let him talk you into doing anything your not ready for, or comfortable doing. Be smart, and listen to your mom…she really does know what shes doing!

its natural for a mom to be protective. you going out and dating guys and not being dependent on her is a wake up call that you are getting older and no mother really likes to say good by your mum will not be very made at you if you continue dating this guy, she will come to terms with it she is just trying to hold onto that little bbit of orthority she has left because this means your not her little girl any more and it must be hard for her to bear