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Is it really a big deal to loose your virginity?

Is it really a big deal to loose your virginity? Ok so I am 15 and I am thinking about loosing my virginity to a guy I have known for like 5 years, maybe even longer. Me and him aren’t together because of some problems but we are really close. I do trust him but I don’t know if I should. We have had sexual incounters but not the full sex. I don’t want to regret having sex with him. I think maybe if I am doubting to much then I’m really telling myself I shouldn’t. I asked him how he felt about it and he said he thinks its a good idea because we have a connection and trust but then again he is a guy. Also I’m scared that it may hurt really bad?

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Answer #1

You get a hyped up about it because you’ve never done it before, and think you’re ready to experience it. I know this is a weird refference, but just imagin you just got your drivers lisence, you’re anxious to go drive, its new, its exciting, but would you pick the first car on the lot just so you could get out on the road, and could leave you sitting at the side of the road after a trip around the block, or would you take a look around and find something you really like? And thats just a car! You’re talking about yourself, and your body, and an a very personal relationship with someone else. Take sometime and think about it, because it isnt something youll forget. You might not remember every little detail of the experience, but youll always remember who and the type of relationship you had. Besides that, you dont want to be the type of girl that ‘test drives everything on the lot’ if you get what I mean. Your self respect is first, and if this guy is the right one, he wont mind waiting for you

Answer #2

if you have even the smallest dout you shouldn’t do it. when you do have sex for the furst time you should be in a loveing and comited relationship.

Answer #3

for some people there virginity is everything, and its a big deal to other people it means nothing, and its no big deal but either way its important to make sure youve learnt about sex before you go off having it and remember to LEARN about sex before you go off having it learn about as well as a male and female reproductive system birth control, contraception, pregnancy and sti/stds don’t have sex until you know the consequences involved with it because the main reason why kids and teens like you get pregnant and get stds is because of a lack of sex education

also wait untill you feel 100% ready and comfortable with it

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