he took my virginity and broke my heart..

I’ve been with this guy adrian for a few months. when we first started going out, , we were inseperable, we were always so happy and flirting with eachother, people would say how cute of a couple we aree. I really liked him. to starrt off, I never let myslef fall for anyone as hard as I fell for him. I never let any guy get to me, but I really liked him and he said he really liked me in so many ways.. so I guess I subconsiously let my guard down completely with him. the biggest mistake of my life. one day out of no where he brok up with me. I cried so hard, I never cried for any guy before and I was scared and confused as to why he did. all he said is that he didnt feel right. I hated him, I felt like everything he ever told me and everything we have ever been throught was all lies. later that day he asked if I would ever get back with him, I decided to play hard to get and said no you broke up with me we’re done. even though I was dying insisd.e a couple days aftfer, we starrted talking again, I never forgot what he did but we were togther again so I thought maybe it doesnt matter. I was falling for him and I couldnt stand up. even though he was an asshole most of the time, I couldnt help myself. we hookedup all the time and all the times were amazinggg! we had the strongest connection when we were physically close with eachother, or at least I thought so. one day we were talking and he wanted to have sex. I said nooo straight up. but he kept trying to coninvince me, it would be both of outr firsts! nothing bad could happen, it could be fun, and I wont tell anyone. thats what he kept saying to me over and over. so my stupiddd self agreed . we weren’y even officialy together!! so I had sex with him for the first time. it didnt seem like a big deal to me at first cus like we were still together and talkig and happy. but then we had sex the seccond time. after that things went down hill. he told me he didint want to talk anymore. I should have seen it coming. he promised me he would never leave me aftfer something as intense as we did. people started to find out that we had sex and talking there shitt.. I hate when people get into my business. on top of that he broke my heart =[ I should have seen it coming. it was the worst feeling ever. I hate him sooo damn much. he used to sit next to me at lunch every signel day, but he dissappeared. he doesnt call me anymore so I dont call him. he’s an asshoole and I hate him. the worst part is now that I think about it. I wwas so STUPIDDD! how could I be so blind and dumb over a fcking boy .whenever I do see him in the halls, I try to ignore him, when in reality , I lose my breathe . I get scared and start trembling. I get vulnerable all over again. I dont knwo what to do. I want revenge. I want him to want me backk so I can turn him down and huhrt him almost as much as he hurt me. I want him to miss me as much as I miss him. I want him to be thinking about me all the time as I do for him. I can’t get over him. I’m miserable. he took my virginity and broke my heart.. I wish he wasn;t so immature. I need advice before I completely loose myhead. I used to be happy. untill I met him. but now im just heart broken </3 and he doesnt even care.

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he took my virginity and broke my heart..

Answer #1

The same thing happened 2 me 2 but in my ocassion my parents found out and he cheated on me and he was still messing around with his ex having sex and. One day she left him 4 a guy he came over and told me the truth he cried in my house over that girl and told me he luved her it was the worst feeling ever 2 hear the guy who you lost your virginity 2 tell uthose horrible words I was always faithful to him and after all that I tool him back but I cheated on him watt goes around comes back around

Answer #2

I’d say 4get about him because these kinda boy’s are reali not worth it! the worse happened 2 me I lost my virginity when I was 19 2 my on and off boyfriend 4 a year, the fool broke up with me the next day over a little silly argument which counld have been resolved so easily just by saying sorry…am still not over it because it happened 2 weeks ago but I guess thats life and I just need 2 move on with life just like how he’s moved on with his…

Answer #3

Yep the same sorta thing happened to me as well. I was seeing this guy for ages and he was so charmin always told me he liked me and then he took my virginity and things went downhill and he eventually left me. I’m still tryna get over it I havent accepted what has happened yet but I believe that time is a healer it just hasnt taken its course on me yet. They dont know what they are missin out on. Let them get with a girl thats gonna treat em like shit and cheat on em and shit cause they dont know that we are the best they are gna get. h xx

Answer #4

Hey Well Almost The Same thing happened to Me I Lost It to This Guy At 15 And a year Later he walked out on me with out a word he never broke up me I don’t know why but I know it’s over he was 17 & he used to say all this sweet things to me at some point I thought he really did love me we had so much fun together he was the happiest & I was too but I guess it was all bullshit…Anyway till this day I still think of him well the truth is You will always have something there for him since he was your first & you really opened up to him The best thing to do is Move on just keep him in your past & You will find someone that will Love you & make you the happiest & appreciate you & even be scared to lose you he will even change his ways for you…you just have to be patient Love is a Beautiful thing when both of you feel the SAME towards eachother…& I’m tellin you this from experience 2 years later I found the one for me he makes me happy & made me lose All the feeling I had for my x but like I said the first one will always be there in your mind somewhere you will still think about your first specially when you start to go thru bad times with the other just remember how much of a Dixk he was with you think of all the fuc*ed up things he did to you & say fuxk it fuxk him I deserve way better! it takes time but you will get over it what you went thru just makes you STRONGER and learn from your mistakes! everybody makes them! well wish you the best! xoxo Jess

Answer #5

wow what a douche I dont think you shud have had sex w/ him but evrybody makes mistakes and stuff… the best thing to do is to try to forget about him and move on it sounds cliche but its true… he may have used you too even though he loved you before

Answer #6

same thing happend to me, i lost mine on the 2nd of dis month and dis guy has gone MIA on me, he promised hevean on earth, he was gonna be dere for me 24/7. he told me to promise him that i would always kal him….blah blah, he kept on emphasizinng on it and am so stupid to have lost it to him. now i cry every single time i remember, am such an idiot to have done such a thing….i just wanna curse him and i hope the curse comes to pass. its not fair at all.hes such an asshole and he would never find his true love.i just wanna go back in time :(

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