Is it a bad thing?

Is it a bad thing,to miss things that you and your ex use to do while yall were together when you are currently in a relationship?

Answer #1

Well I don’t think I still love him.He cheated on me from day one,and we were together for 3 years.He lied from day one,he hit me.I just don’t think he is the one.There is one thing that I have learned from that realtionship,and that is.If I love and respect myself,I wont put myself let myself get hurt by the one who has already hurt me.Thanks for the advise though. :)

Answer #2

Not wanting to upset your current relationship but maybe you still are holding onto your ex, maybe it is your heart telling you he is the one? when you have these memories really think hard about who you want , we make choices and they last forever .

Answer #3

I know - I’m only 19 but I’ve been through a lot of relationship stuff. So if you ever need someone to talk to I’m here. :)

Answer #4

It is cool how you understand us.Life is just so complex these days.Nobody realy sits us down to talk to us anymore,it’s kinda sad.

Answer #5

Thanks,I just feel bad sometimes.I just don’t want my boyfriend to feel like I don’t enjoy to moments we share.

Answer #6

Haha that is so true. You are realy deep.

Answer #7

I know what you mean - those feelings will automatically come and go though and you cant just not think about it because its there. But as time goes by you realize why things went the way they did and all that stuff. You cant ease memories no matter what happened, don’t feel bad, it’s not your fault. Just don’t mention them to your boyfriend. Remember that you cant just sit there and decide not to think about something, it doesn’t work like that. I’m sure he thinks about things that you wouldn’t be impressed about but I mean, that’s life. :)

Answer #8

Nope - It’s one of those things you cant control, it’s something that’s hard to deal with emotionally. got to look on the bright side of things when you get down like that. Hang in there hun :)

Answer #9

Thanks stephanie987!

Answer #10

I put some thought into questions when I feel the need to, teenagers are always breaking up over stupid little things and I don’t want to see you go through that because of feelings like this, that your cant control.

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