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Do you think "moving to fast" with a boy is a good thing or a bad thing?
Moving to fast is generally a bad thing because you aren't ready... that's why its to fast. But you never seem to know that your moving to fast until you look back upon it.
"/ It makes your heart race. It turns the world upside down. But if you're not careful, if you don't keep your eyes on something still, you can lose your balance. You can't see what's happening to the people around you. You can't see that you're about to fall./ "
well I've been going out with my boyfriend for like 6-7 months. we've gone down on eachother, 69 style. & just normaly. but yeah, he first fingered me within like.. a week of us going out. he's the frist time I've ever done this kinda thing, but yeah I'm okay with it.
depends on you really, everyones different
it feels good to move fast, you feel good, your happy, and feel like your on top of the world...but when things fall apart, its usually because the relationship wasnt built strong enough because you did move too fast...I've had that happen to me a couple times...it sucks
Its up to you, really. But me, Im taking things slow. I've been with my boyfriend who I love so much for 2 months. Havent even kissed. Taking things slow makes the big steps more special. Just my opinion.
If you are happy and comfortable with everything then moving too fast is great, but do be careful not to get too swept up in it, because before long you could come crashing back down to earth!