Is he "too old"?

My dad hates my boyfriend and says its wrong that we’re together. My boyfriends 38 and im 19, but we’re incredibly in love. Is this really “wrong”?

Is there any way I can get my dad to accept my boyfriend?

Answer #1

I see nothin wrong with it me myself like older men they have more respect for women and I feel like they have already done all the crazy things they are gonna do in life and are more likely to settle down my boyfriend is 7 years older than me and he is the love of my life and father of my 3 lil boys

Answer #2

No, because I’m not againest it because A 50yr old is dating a 26 yr old! And who cares your in love I’m 12 and I get that!

Answer #3

sis, not really your sis but anyways… its nothin wrong with yall age… I was 15 and my boyfriend was 38 when we first met and now im 24 and hes 46 … age aint nothin but a number… its wats inside tha count. long as hes a gud one… cnt find to many in the world now dayz… old ones got more sence.. hit me up if you want lurquetta@yahoo.com

Answer #4

I know you may not see it now, but I think you should enjoy your life as a teen, yes even at 19 you still are. Yes people do say age is nothing but a number, but it does have its differences. He may be looking for something serious like settling down and starting a family and what not. Honey you are still Young and Have so much to do. I think I would have to agree with your dad on this one, live your life dont let no one tie you down just yet.

Answer #5

I think age is just a number and if it really is love then its meant to be. your dad probably just doesnt feel right havent you dating a older men becuase hes a lot more expierenced then you, or your dad knows something bout this guy…

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