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is he abusive?

pls help me - iv bin wiv my bf 4 10mths now and 4 the pas 4 mths we keep,argueing. he makes mountans out of mole hills and its driving me nuts.he xpects me 2put up with it bt he cnt.he says its eiva his way or the hiway!!!recently e as bin tellin me wot i can do an cnt do and also wot 2wer n wot nt.also wen we rgue he as bin pushin me around and grabin me by the neck.i feel that it is my fault sumtymes but e always puts da blame on me n e is never sorry4 wot he as done. e can be rely luvin most of the time n i do love him - 2 much to leave. wot shud i do?

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Answer #1

LEAVE, LEAVE, LEAVE, He probably won’t change even with a the help of a doctor(I’d get a gun and keep it hide –just in case).

Answer #2

Whats crazy about this is i been with my boyfriend for 10 months TODAY and i’m going through the same thing. We actually had a big fight last night and i told him either you stop treating me like this or i’m leaving. its not good for either of us. Its hard to give you just the right advice when we are both going through the same thing. All i can say is…if you are scared he is going to do worse….it would be best to get out of this relationship. Love doesnt mean he gets to treat you however he wants. Its 50/50 …not all abotu him. Stay strong and dont let ANY man get the best of you. I cant tell you what to do but let me ask you this …… Is this relationship really worth being hurt over for this long?

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