In love with a married man

Ugh, where do I begin? I’ve been married to my husband for over 3 years now, things used to be great. I never ever thought of going outside my marriage. But I did, with a married man. He is no longer in love with his wife and I am no longer in love with my husband and we want to be together, the only problem is that neither one of us are taking that step in fear that the other person will not leave. What do I do? -Rachel

Answer #1

I think you should fix your marriages, both of you. What happens if you both get divorces, and you two end up getting together? Then you two would get tired of each other and cheat with other people. You cant run from your problems, you fix them. Get marriage counseling and stop cheating, thats not fair. Being cheated on is the worst pain in the world, I feel really sorry for your husband.

Answer #2

I agree with stephanief987. my parents were in the same situation except it was my mom who got cheated on.I always feel bad for my mom but they went to counseling and they were going to get a divorce but now they are working it out. I think you need to work things out or try at least.would you want to be in his position being the one cheated on?
hope I helped :]

Answer #3

Wow that’s crazy I am in the exact same situation. Except we both have babies that are the same age and I’m best friend’s with my lover’s wife and he’s best frineds with my husband. Such a mess we found our selves in but now that I’m in it I feel like I can’t and don’t want to stop or there would be a huge void. Leaving is a big step but if you are both ready then you shoud do or you might end up ending what if the rest of your life and be unhappy which is no way to live.

Answer #4

Wow that’s crazy I am in the exact same situation. Except we both have babies that are the same age and I’m best friend’s with my lover’s wife and he’s best frineds with my husband. Such a mess we found our selves in but now that I’m in it I feel like I can’t and don’t want to stop or there would be a huge void. Leaving is a big step but if you are both ready then you shoud do or you might end up ending what if the rest of your life and be unhappy which is no way to live.

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