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Im the un-loved child

I honestly think my mom loves my older brother more then me hes 18 {still lives with us though} hes gotten great grades since 6th grade he lost almost 100 lbs. hes in youth&gov. He wants to run for president he has a ton of friends and is very popular and has a job and gets everything he wants and im the complete oppisite my mom hardly talks to me and hates talking to me because she always says she get frustrated talking to me and she always curses at me and threatens to hit me and to send me to my dads {their divorced} I try to get attention by getting better grades and acting nicer and doing my chores more often and even when she dosnt ask me to but nothing has changed and im starting to cut myself because my family wouldnt care if I died or not

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Answer #1

it and might show some comokay your bro sounds like a over eciever but you need to not live up to him be yur slef oay and tell your mom that you feel naglcted if you can and if not fk her im sorry but if shes not going to notice you fk her and just agnor her shell relize pastion and I’ve been there my dad died and I started to cut and it got bad I was in the hobitle 3 times and its not fun feeling like that the way people look at you is untakeable get really good friends and when you want to cut alk tell them vent time just listen and go off act like there your family and go off say sorry after and ask if they need to k and if need to talk on here I can listen and try to help and belive me I’ve fleft like no one cares if I lived or died but they do and if I did die 3 of my frineds would be died I’ve done a lot with my feinds I takled one of them from jumping into the freeway of a over ramp I called 911 when my friend tried to od and the next one I talked down and trust me even if your family dosnt care your friends do so if you ever do need to talk I can listen

Answer #2

I kinda understand how you feel. I think you should go to youtube. There is a video there. Now I know that might be wierd to do but please check it out. Type in “from sadness to happiness” the vid should have a pic of an arm with writing on it. See the WHOLE video please. Hope that helps

Answer #3

Well its normal to think like this when you have an older brother/sister but its not true she just probley get along with him better because hes an adult and they probley relate to a lot of things. Just try to talk to her im sure she will probely tell you the same thing or some what close. Yours truly, Demika Ray

Answer #4

if there is an aunt or an uncle etc that you are close to or know quite well then talk to them about it. they could also talk to your mum for you if that would make you feel better

Answer #5

would you feel more comfortable living with your dad? I know it may seem as if no one cares.. but cutting yourself isnt the answer. im really sorry you have to go through this I cant imagine what it might be doing to your self esteem.

Answer #6

well my dad has a new wife who I seriously hate and he treats her kids better then me and ya it sucks because all my other family members are not in my state or dead

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