Im 13 pregnant and my mom wont let me keep it, help?

it’s not up to her its your baby but it also cud be a good thing because your only 13 you don’t want her/him to grow up and find out you were only 13 I wudin’t I think you shud sit down with your mum and talk mayb ask her if you can at least keep it untill you give birth then give it up for adoption

You can still get a good education as long as you pay attention and stuff. I don’t know if your friends won’t respect you anymore it depends what type of friends they are. Maybe get a job, just a small one like a paper round and put some money towards the baby and show you can pay for a few things by yourself. Maybe she’s worried you’ll lose your social life so come to a agreement and say something like you’ll look after the baby everyday with a little help but you get to have saturdays and maybe some sundays out with your friends. I hope everything works out for you.. good luck x

to that ignorant comment about not having a life a not having friends…what the F**k ever. I was young and pregnant but wouldnt regret it in a milion years. she is my life. I stayed in school and im graduating a year early even… I have a job and plan on going to college. its not impossible but then again I was a couple years older than u. if you cannot go thru gettin rid of the baby then give it up for adoption. just because your pregnant dont mean you will b called a slut…and even if you were called that why would other’s opinions matter?

listen ask your self this what would your life be with out a baby 1.still have the respect of your friends /2. still have your name and not be called a slut all the time /3.get a good education at school/4.college/5.a great job/6.party with friends/7.travel/8.live your life /// now what would your life be with a baby 1.no respect /2.no friends /3.lose your real name for slut /4.no education /5.no college/6.on the dole/7.no money /8. no god job/9 no partys/ just wakin up at 4.30 am to feed the baby and change hin/her (NO LIFE AT ALL AT 13 WITH A BABY ) NOW WHAT DO YOU THINK YOU WUD LIKE your LIFE TO LOOK LIKE

I know what you are going through, I was pregnant at that age and I thought I wanted it then my boyfriend left me and my mam made me get rid of it, it was the best thing ever that sounds horrible but I mean it I have a great life ahead of me and love every minute of it. enjoy being young you will regret it if you keep it. there is no need to rush into anything make sure you think for yourself and listen to your mam

I believe that everything happens for a reason and that everyone has their futures planned for them. so obviously you are ment to have this baby. no harm til ye but you got urself in this situation so you needa face up til the consequences even if you are only 13! if you get rid of it you will only end up regrettin it in the future and it will effect you emotionally now because of your age. I think you shud keep it and no matter wa your mum says she will stand by you and help you and your boyfriend when the baby cums.

you have your whole life ahead of you at 13 do you really want a baby keeping you awake at night, vomiting on you and do you really want to sit there and change its napy ? ? ask yourself that

But I don’t want to give it away :( me and my boyfriend want it

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