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Ok so my mom doesn't want to let me go visit my boyfriend which lives 25 hours from my place . She said im too young (15) . THe thing is, I met him about 4 weeks ago with the exchange students and now imiss him like crazy . we were together for 2 weeks.. and now we talk on the computer and talked about seeing each other this summer . I would be staying at my friend's place which I met with the exchange. Her mom would call my mom she said and talk to her because she doesnt know her. I really have to go I miss himm like crrazyy !! I'd be going with my friend by plane , and coming bk with him so I wouldnt be alone . My mom thinks that im too young and keeps telling me that she doesnt know the family and that they could say theyd take care of me and then when im there end up not . and I was like ''well its not like theyre gonna put me on the street ' and she said well how am I suppose to know , we dont know them . I think she's just scared something'll happen . do you know how I could convince my mom ?? how I could tell her that I really wanna go ? pleasse help !! thanksss !
Defnintely too young - realize you have a teenage infatuation/crush...you will not die if you don't see him till older - she's absolutely right, she doesn't 'know' those people and it's her job as a parent to look after your best interests, love you, and Care ! - many, many don't Care...be Thankful and stop giving her a hard time, she's right !! - you'll realize and agree when you're in that position.
I had the same problem when I was your age. And I do think that your mother has a valid point.
however.
What I did was to convince my mother to let him come over...rather than me go over there and after the first time she let me go to his place. (so wouldn't it be possible for him to come to you instead of you going there)
I agree with amblessed.People think that you can date from the age of 10 and have sex at 11.But seriously,you people always choose friends and boyfriends over family anyway...its just a lame crush.
just say that you havent see him in along time and you need to see him. or just simpliy run away(not recommened)
