Im 13 and pregnant...what should I do.?

I cant tell my parents because they will kick me out…im still with the babys daddy.im really scared the baby daddy knows he plans to stay with me and all but I just dont know what to do

Answer #1

That was so stupid of you to do that, I’m sure you know it. Have an abortion, and try speaking to your parents calmly.

Answer #2

greyhairseverywhere, who said she never used a condom? It may have just broken without them knowing. Don’t jump to conclusions.

Answer #3

ok. I am 13 and im pregnat. I had sex with my boyfriend. we went out to his house one day we got in bed and had it. im 12 weeks away of having a baby girl . I am going to name her jazmine. if you are me wht I did was not tell my mom tell I got really fat and it was noticable. my parents did get mad but got ovr it. TRUST ME THEY WILL B THERE FOR you NO MATTER IF your 13 AND your PREGNAT

Answer #4

I am wanting a baby and I am 13 and I will have sex when the time is right my m8s are telling me to do it and I am following them

Answer #5

well first of all I think you should concider adoption for the baby because by having the baby u’d have to take care of it constantly not to mention that babies get sick a lot(especially if their parents had them at a young age)but the thing is they would have a better life if you didnt let it live with u try to get a friend or the dad to take you in or share your plans(if you like the adiption idea)with your parents

Answer #6

Just go to your parents and tell them. They should respect you for that. If they kick you out, you could always stay with a friend or relative until they cooled down.

Answer #7

If you were too dumb to use a condom - then you are too dumb to take care of a baby. Get an abortion. Have your boyfriend’s parents pay for it.

Answer #8

Wow! I know it’s tough, but you have 2 speak 2 your parents ..they might be upset 4 a while, but they will guide you through the right path. you are so young & have so much ahead that you don’t want a baby 2 hold you down. Honestly, at the age of 13 there is no guarantee you will be with your boyfriend when your 18. you might be in love now, but give urself time. I’m against abortions & all at your age though I think it’s the best decision. It’s very hard out there & with a baby even worst because you wouldn’t want that child 2 suffer. your parents will b mad, but you are their child & they would b there no matter what. Parents will say things 2 scare you I know because my parents said the same 2 me, but trust me they will b there 4 u.

Answer #9

omg thats a really difficult situation!! even why im really against abortions in your case I think is the best solution. you cant take care of a child, your a child yoself. you have so many things to go threw before you become a mom. you 2 are really too young 2 start a life on your own. but if you really want this baby then go for it!! maybe your parents will b angry in the beginning but after the baby is born im sure they’re gonna love him and of course u!

good luck!!!

Answer #10

what??? kick you out???

thats not only morally wrong…but ILLEGAL.

no parent can kick out their kids until they are of age 18. and that is because at 18 you are an adult.

your parents will go to jail for kicking you out of the house.

sooo

I dont know where you got the conclusion that your parents would do such a thing.

tell them, its the only way.

they know kids nowadays are growing up tooo fast, and they will just need to accept it.

if you want to keep the baby or not, your still a baby, and need mom and daddy to take care of this situation for you.

your only option is to tell them.

once you do, you will feel better about yourself.

Answer #11

I have a friend she is also pregnant and at the age of 13.the best thing to do is tell your parents. dont do the abortion just think its like killing a baby put it up for adoption is the best thing to do and please dont have sex till your married and always use portection!

Answer #12

awww hunny listen you should tell your mum and dad and you should do what you feel confertable doing talk to you boyfriend and see what he wants and what you want dont worry babez no one will judge you xx

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