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I have been with my partner for seven years. Though happy with our lives together, we have two wonderful children, there is something lacking-SEX. My partner rarely wants to have sex anymore.

I've discussed this with her as deeply as she will allow; she doesn't want someone else or try to experiment, she just has a low sex drive since or first child was born. Further, she has become arrogant and defensive, dismissing my attempts even to talk.

I know her well, she will stick to this for as long as she feels this way, does that mean forever! Our relationship now revolves around want she wants to do, her goals and aims with mine superceded. I do not want to leave this relationship as difficult as it has become. All I want to do is meet someone in a similar situation who wants to hang-out, talk intellegently about life and love and yeah, make passionate love to. I do not know now to go about finding someone or even if I should. Advise me, direct me or abuse me, I just want someone to listen and respond intellegently.