I need too change but I don't know how

I am passive I’m fat I’m bad luck I’m all ways getting hurt and laity I’m getting people mad ALLOT and I don’t mean too either I’m all ways spelling things incorrectly and f*cking up big time I need too change that and I don’t know how can any one PLEASE!!! help me ?

Answer #1

Well Lovebug16, being passive is not a bad thing at all its actually a quality that few people have, however being fat may not be bad but it is unhealthy. I would advise you go on a diet or better yet eat in moderation and be active outside if your not already. Get involved in sports or any activity that requires excessive amounts of energy I.e. running, jump rope, etc. As for bad luck thats pure superstision (sp?) there is no sure thing, just try not to trip over your own feet (low humor). You say you also get people mad a lot, maybe you should ask them exactly what it is that you do that makes them upset. Then it’ll be up to you if you think their reasons are reasonable for you. And finally spelling: I cant say I can help except you should try to sound things out a bit more…and you say mess up frequently too? I need more info on what imparticular (sp?) you mess up with. I hope I helped you.

Answer #2

If you dont believe in God, fate, destiny and all the rest, then quite obviously you cant believe in luck… that is all tied in together… therefore you’re not bad luck… now that we have that settled…

Sometimes things happen all at once. It’s like one thing after another. No luck, no destiny, no karma. It’s just life being life. It happens. You’re just going to not do what you did the first time around, learn your lesson and do better next time. There is no point in beating yourself up for making a mistake. This is a hard one. I will think about it for days and not sleep when I make someone mad. Finally one day I figured I was obsessing longer than the person I made mad! Now that is just stupid and pointless… So you made a bunch of people mad. You apologize, promise to do better next time. If they can’t let it go, screw them…

Well I suck at spelling too. I just make sure everything goes through a spell checker. Download firefox, it has an automatic spell checker. It wont help you everywhere, but atleast you wont be making spelling mistakes online.

You said you’re always getting hurt, are you clumsy? because unfortunately I havent found a cure for that one except just watching where you walk and how you walk all the time. I still spill food, and drop things, break things, but I’ve learnt to say whatever… I made a mistake, I’ll try to do better. It’s not the end of the world. It’s frustrating not to be as graceful as other people who just seem to be born with it, but at a certain point you gotta let that go… so you’ll never be that smooth graceful being who doesnt trip over their own feet, whatever, life’s too short to care about looking clumsy…

You need to breathe. Remind yourself of your good qualities. If you have bad habits/qualities you want to change. Pick one. Habits take 3/4 weeks to change.

Goodluck!

Answer #3

I do love my self But I want some 1 else 2 love me

Shamane I don’t believe in god with all the shit I have been threw theres not point in me believing I use 2 when I was lil but I know it,s all a lie all men do is tell you sick twisted fucked up lies

Answer #4

baby girl no one can help not fat nor bad luck..talk to GOD and ask to give you the strength..seriously..do’nt give up.U may not be trying to hear me on this tip but just pray about your problems and in life everything is not perfect!!!Keep in touch

Answer #5

You should love yourself its seems to me you lack low self asteem you need to be more positive the more positive you are the more people you attract in a good way a happy you is a well, happy and confident you.

Answer #6

I believe in fate and destiny I just don’t believe in god I have no reason 2 and it,s the people I love that I am getting mad and it,s hurting me I hate making people mad it,s some thing I just hate doing I am way 2 nice and when I do get people mad it,s wicked hurtful now the people do for give and for get but I don’t I hold onto that as for the spelling I have that it,s when I am on messengers I get p*ssed off cause I miss spell things and I am clumsy but thats not why I get hurt I am all ways getting hurt emotionally mostly cause of my actions on making people mad see 1 prob all ways comes out 2 a million prob’s with me

Answer #7

well it,s not with me cause I lose people that way and with sport,s I would but I don’t work well with people and I have a hard time understanding them so I can’t do that and I don’t like going out unless I have other,s with me and like no 1 is ever with me and with the spelling I all ways sound things out if I don’t feel I know the exact way of spelling it but it don’t help much I still miss spell allot and I mess up withe very thing I am all ways doing things wrong when I try and make some 1 happy I make them mad at me when I try 2 help out I mess up and every thing goes wrong and I know what I am doing 2 make them mad I just can’t help it it,s who I am

Answer #8

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Answer #9

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