I am 13 & here in a few days I got 2 get a papsmear so I can get birth control... So my question is can the doctor find out if I have lost my virginity? I really dont want my mom 2 find out, she would never 4give me or stop b***hing at me 4 it... So any 1... Please help!!!???!!!???
I got birthcontrol when I was 13 and the doctor did all that stuff on me, and the doctor will tell you before hand, that they DO NOT have to tell your parent, your parent doesnt even have to be in the room when your talking to the doctor. all that sexual information is considering private information. and the doctor could get fired for telling your parent without your concent.
I agree with nadya. You don't know what you want at that age. You shouldn't be sleeping anyone and everyone. Do you want to have to tell your partner one day that you have slept with 20 people and have to have a list to go through? That is just nasty and a lot of guys that I know don't like that and the ones that do are only in it for the sex. It will get you hurt. Real bad.
I have only had sex once... but it wasn't supposed 2 happen... it was kinda forced but I dont want 2 tell my mom... does the doctor have 2 tell her??? & if she finds out I am scared of what she's gonna do... & im not gonna have sex again til im atleast 18!! I just want 2 know how I can keep it a secret???
yes the doctor will be able too tell if yhew already had sex..if I was yhr mom ill be B***chiinq too yhr 13 years old haviinq sex
no problem!! ... I understand.. the same thing happened to me when I was 13... it happens.. get over it and move on.
thank you dreamer2352 for everything!! no one else seemed 2 help at all!!! but thx!!
your doc isnt allowed to tel your parents unless you tell him it is ok
