Okay like im 13years old and I have a baby named isabella ann maree and I need help she is crying a lot when I try to put her clothes on she starts screaming and tryes to take it off so ike yea and when I play with her she starts crying but when shes with her dad shes smiling laughing ect. With him what am I doing wrong am I a bad mother should I just let her go on and let her live with her father I need help can you help me!!!
Please!!!
It's normal - what age is your daughter. That will make a huge difference in this question.
a lot of children go through an attatchment phase where they cling to one parent of the other one. If you are around her more often and she sees you all the time - she could just be happy when she finnally sees her daddy. I'm a stay at home mom - I deal with my son all day. He does get cranky at times, but all babies do. Of course, when my fiance get's home, Noah is all smiles and wants to play. That's because he hasn't seen his daddy all day and is excited when he finally get's home from work .(btw my son is 5 1/2 months).
In order to calm her down - if it's not cold in the house - she really doesn't need to wear clothes. It's rather hot where I live and I let my son lay around in his diaper on nude occasionaly (it's actually very good to let them lay around for 30 minutes or so a day without a diaper on, it airs them out down there and helps prevent diaper rashes). Clothes aren't neccasary all of the time if it's not cold. Also, make sure when your dressing her and she's fussy - pick a simple outfit to put on here that doesn't take as long. Like a simple slip over dress, one move and it's on her.
Your not a bad mother - your child is probley just going through a stage, it will end. Just be patient and continue to hold her, play with her, and comfort her.
If you have any questions feel free to funmail me.
13 is a very very young age to have a baby so congrats to you on giving it your all. One question would be are you the one who's with her all the time? because if yes that can be verrry stressful for someone your age or anyone for that matter and maybe that makes you tense so when she goes to her dad she he might be more relaxed so you should try to divide time between you 2 so you both get some time to yourselves. Also maybe she just hates clothes lol both of my kids do
Shes probably just going threw a stage, You dont need to worry about it so much. Do you ever remember baby sitting and how sumtimes the kids would like you more that there own parents that kind of stage. She dont hate you she loves you and she loves her dad to. Kids dont know how to hate at that age. Sometimes daddys the fav and sometimes the mommys the fav it switches around and you cant fix that its just the way kids are.
well if she dosent like you then maybe let her stay with her dad for a while then get her back and see how she acts maybe she is not around her dad a lot
and you are way too young for a baby
Your not a bad mother for that, a lot of babies dont like there clothes being put on or off. Try holding her and singing her dont feel so tense about it because babies can feel that pressure.
well like I do,do that but like I even give her baths a rub her belly and take her to movies and all this stuff and like its like she HATES me I need help please tell me what to do :/
I what your talking about im a teen mother too im the best thing to do is just hold her sing to her and you not a bad mother okay every baby crys okay hun
Kitty
wow 13 well just give it time ure probably just not use to the whole mother thing
Maybe like rock her or talk to her while doing so. OR CALL HER FATEHR MORE OFTEN
Dang girl your 13 and a mom?!
