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Help! I need to save my mom from her boyfriend!

I hate my moms boyfriend.

He’s a dumb redneck/alcoholic/gun crazy dumbass! He goes to the bar all the time and he drinks everyday, using the money for his crappy beer. He also insists her and him go out all the time and use even more money, now our cable, phone, internet (im using a card) and the house is foreclosed! All because my mom let him manage the money! Theyre going to get married soon, and everyone did approve, but now everyone in my family is saying no. Mom just thinks were all silly, and shoots everyone down. I finally get to talk to her about it, and she shoots me down. I’m scared that if I can’t find out what to do, her life will be ruined by this man! He’s prevented her from taking to other guys by questioning her too much, and he’s made her so lazy! He’s f**king up my mom!

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Answer #1

yeah I totally understand u, I had the same problem. What you could do is try talking about your real dad in front of him, try to say how much you miss him and how good he was. Hopefully your moms boyfriend will feel bad. Its good you dont have to live with them :P. And if at some point they will get married just simply dont come to their wedding. I wouldn’t probably come. Try talking to your mom, ask her who is more important to her, her boyfriend or you and then she would have to chose. Tell her that is she will marry that man she is going to lose you and you will see what she is going to answer. Good luck

Answer #2

tell your mom how you feel because for one no parent should start a famiily without consulting one of the members put your say so because this is also jepordizing you to

Answer #3

I tried to tell her but she shot me down like everyone else.

Answer #4

om so sorry, but there is really not a lot you can do your mom is going to have to learn for herslef that he is just bad news. best of luck to ya.

Answer #5

I live in a different house now but I still have to visit the hellhole they call home

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